Friday, April 25, 2008

MeMorY Tricks

12 Memory Tricks
Tamim Ansary writes on culture and society for Encarta. He is the author of the critically acclaimed memoir West of Kabul, East of New York, as well as dozens of nonfiction books for children.













All memories are recovered memories, and we recover them through associations: We remember a past event because something currently in our awareness -- something we're looking at, hearing, tasting, thinking about, whatever -- reminds us of something, which reminds us of something else, which reminds us of something else and so on back. That's why recent events are easy to remember: The environment is still loaded with cues and the chain of links is short.Good memory, then, is all about processing information properly as it goes into storage. Psychologist William James summarized the fundamental principle in a single phrase: "The secret is … forming diverse and multiple associations with every fact we care to retain." Here, then, are 12 concrete steps you can take to remember particular facts and improve your general capacity to retain what you learn. Note that only the last step is one you can take when you're actually trying to remember. All the rest have to do with how you absorb information and how you convert it into memory.

1. Pay attention. You can't remember what you never knew, so don't be multitasking when you're trying to learn or memorize something: Give it the spotlight of your full attention at least once.



2. Understand. The more completely you get it, the less likely you are to forget it. (If you don't understand football, you're not likely to remember the scores.)



3. Repeat and apply. Directly after learning something, repeat it, preferably out loud. Even better, use it in your own way. If you want to remember a joke, for example, tell it to someone and try to make them laugh.



4. Chunk. Although short-term memory can deal with only about seven items at a time, you can finesse this limit by grouping items together and thinking of each group as a unit. Later, you can unpack those units. Remembering the numbers 5, 4, 6, 1, 9, 8, 6, 5 and 8 is harder than remembering the numbers 546, 198 and 658.



5. Make meaning. Nonsense is hard to remember. Compare this:disease reported control Chicago mumps the for of center an in outbreakwith this: The Centers for Disease Control reported an outbreak of mumps in Chicago. To make meaning where none inherently exists, the experts recommend embedding the information in an invented narrative. The license plate 3PLY981 thus becomes: Three carpenters cut a piece of plywood into nine pieces and ate one. Yes, I know, no one eats plywood; but that's actually a strength of the narrative in this case. (See step 7.)



6. Look for patterns. Stanford researchers have found that forgetting is a key aspect of good remembering, but not because you have to clear out space; rather, it's because forgetting the less relevant details reveals the more meaningful underlying structure.



7. Visualize. Search the information for some element you can turn into an image. If you've just met a Bridget Brooks and want to remember her name, you might picture the Brooklyn Bridge spanning her face from ear to ear. The more striking or ridiculous the image, the more likely it is to stick in your mind.



8. Hook it to something funny. Stalagmites or stalactites -- which ones go up? Well, it's like ants in your pants: The 'mites go up, the 'tites come down.



9. Hook it to a melody, chant, rhyme or rhythmic motion. Remember singing A-B-C-D-E-F-G to the tune of "Baa Baa Black Sheep"? How about: "In fourteen hundred and ninety-two/Columbus sailed the ocean blue"? Or try pacing rhythmically while memorizing a table of data.



10. Associate new with old. Greek and Roman orators had a trick for remembering a speech. They would create a striking image for each topic they meant to cover (see step 7), mentally put these images in the rooms of their home, and then, while giving the speech, picture strolling through their home. Each next room would remind them of their next topic, and in the proper order. Note that they didn't have to remember the order of their rooms, because this knowledge was already imprinted in their brains.



11. Link learning to environment. The memory tends to associate information with the environment in which one learns it. If you're going to be tested on something and you know where the test will occur, study the material in the same sort of place. If you don't know anything about the test site, study in a variety of locations so the memories won't get locked into cues from one environment.



12. Let 'er drift. If a memory is staying out of reach, stop fishing for it, the experts say. Instead, let your mind drift to the general area: to friends you knew then, to the school you went to, the car you drove ... with luck, you'll happen into the end piece of a chain of links leading to the memory you're after.

Monday, April 21, 2008

Ways to cope stress


By Kathleen Whitmer, Akron, Ohio [ some notes from HIKARI KIRA, and JC_LIMs]
[Webmaster's Note: Kathleen Whitmer is a charming woman who is a living proof that good attitudes can be good medicine. She is a cancer and heart transplant surviver. She refused to "pack-up" in front of adversities and took an active role in her healing. She is an author as well as a volunteer helping other cancer victims cope with their disease. She also speaks regularly about stress, cancer and happiness. Here is a list of things you can do to manage stress as suggested by Kathleen.]

Get up 15 minutes earlier.
Prepare for the morning the night before.

Avoid tight fitting clothes.
Set appointments ahead.

Don't rely on your memory...write it down.

Practice, preventative maintenance.
Say no more often.
Set priorities in your life.
Avoid negative people. [don't avoid me coz I'm (+) ^^] >>thats nice said!
Use time wisely.
Simplify meals.

Always make copies of important papers.
Anticipate your needs.
Repair anything that doesn't work properly.
Ask for help with the jobs you dislike.
Break large tasks into bite size portions. [make chunks]>>what!?!
Look at problems as challenges.
Look at challenges differently.
Unclutter your life.

SMILE >>with that u give a small gift fot other

Be prepared for rain.
Pet a friendly dog/cat.

Don't know all the answers.
Look for the silver living.

Say something nice to someone. >>this is important!
Walk in the rain. [that's why I hate using umbrella]
Schedule play time into every day.
Take a bubble bath.
Believe in you. [yup..juz believe in ur self~] >>I AGREE!!
Stop saying negative things to yourself.
Visualize yourselves winning.

Develop your sense of humor.
Stop thinking that tomorrow will be better than today.

Have goals for yourself.
Say hello to a stranger.

Ask a friend for a hug. [yes,it works]>>REally?
Look up at the stars.
Practice breathing slowly. >>I did it!
Learn to whistle a tune.
Read a poem.
Listen to a symphony.
Watch a ballet.
Read a story curled up in bed.
Do a brand new thing. [...so you won't get bored] >>help to train ur brain too!

Stop a bad habit.
Buy yourself a flower.>>wHAt!!sOunds silly for me :p

Take stock in your achievements.
Find support from others.

Ask someone to be your "vent" partner. [partner in crime?] >>LOL

Do it today.

Work at being cheerful and optimistic.
Put safety first.
Do everything in moderation.
Pay attention to your appearance.
Strive for excellence, not perfection.
Stretch your limits each day.
Look at a work of art.
Hum a jingle.

Maintain your weight.

Plant a tree.

Feed the birds.
Practice grace under pressure.[it's a MUST]

Stand up and stretch.
Always have a "plan B."
Learn a new doodle.
Memorize a joke.

Be responsible for your feelings.
Learn to meet your own needs.
Become a better listener. >>Sometimes it's harD!
Know your limitations and let others know them too.
Throw a paper airplane.

Learn the words to a new song.

Get to work early.
Clean out one closet.
Play patty cake with a toddler.
Go on a picnic.

Take different route to work.
Leave work early (with permission).

Put air freshener in your car.

Watch a movie and eat popcorn.
Write a note to a faraway friend.

Go to a ball game and scream.
Cook a meal and eat it by candlelight.
Recognize the importance of unconditional love.
Remember that stress is an attitude.
Keep a journal.
Have a support network of people, places and things.
Quit trying to "fix" other people.
Get enough sleep.
Talk less and listen more. >>THt's right!
Freely praise other people.
Relax, take each day at a time .. You have the rest of your life to live.

NB: [ ] by HIKARI KIRA

>> by JC_Lims


Wednesday, March 26, 2008

just some thought

This is my first posting blog.Welcome!.^-^I dont really care about the grammar, but I will try to write in proper English. Every single things in my life is wonderful now, and I wanna say thank for my savior Lord for keeping me, my family and my friends together. I write some quotes that I want to share.
>>You were made by God and for God-and until you understand that, life will never make sense.
....FEar is a self-imposed prison that will keep you from becoming what God intends for you to be. You must against it with the weapon of FAITH and Love...
>>The man without a purpose is like a ship without a rudder-a waif, a nothing, a no man.
...Those who have hurt you in the past cannot continue to hurt you unless you hold to the pain through resentment. Your past is part! Nothing will change it. You are only hurting yourself with your bitterness. For your own sake, learn from it, and then let it go...